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You can give a woman an orgasm without even touching her.   Don’t believe me?  Go see a stage hypnosis show in Vegas.  Hypnotists do it every night.  Hell there are videos of this on YouTube.

Now you may be thinking “But I’m not a hypnotist”.   If you stop yourself here, you will miss out on the real secret to giving women the best sex of their life.  You’ll blow your chance to be called The Best Lover they ever had.

So what is this amazing secret?  Here it is in a nutshell:

Your most powerful tool in the bedroom is not your “tool”,
it is your voice; specifically dirty talk, and it is very powerful.

If you haven’t heard this before, it doesn’t surprise me.  

All the so-called “sex books” out there are utterly ineffective at teaching men how to give women orgasms.  Their advice is the typical “nurture communication and dialog”, or “ask for feedback” or “get in touch with your feminine side”.

In other words it’s mostly touchy feely new age bullshit.   And you won’t find any of them telling you to talk dirty to your women, or to get her imagining what you will do to her later while you are on a date, or to call her when you are out of town and have phone sex.

Women LOVE this stuff!

Why?  Because for a woman, the mental aspect is the most important part of sex.  For men it’s visual.

Men watch porn.  Women read 500 page romance novels.   (In case you didn’t know, Romance novels are one of the top selling categories of books year after year after year).

When you understand this, you can drive women wild even when you are a thousand miles away!

Now some men are afraid to talk dirty.  They think the woman will take it wrong or will be offended.  Some men can’t talk dirty because they themselves are not comfortable with their own sexuality.  Some men don’t believe that dirty talk is powerful. 

Such men don’t give women orgasms.  Remember 70% of women do NOT have an orgasm during intercourse.  But ALL healthy women can have orgasms during sex, but it is the man’s responsibility to make it happen.  And I got news for you… pump-n-dump does not do the trick.

Think of the bad boys.  Women love bad boys.  Women cum like crazy with a bad boy.  And what do you think those bad boys are doing in the bedroom with her?  They’re talking dirty.  Very dirty.

Maybe you’re “a nice guy” or “a gentleman”.  That’s all good.  But if you are always a nice guy, it does not spark any excitement in her.  There is a time and place to be a bad boy.  You need to push out of your comfort zone and learn how.

Here is an email that I recently received, note the one thing that made a difference was him talking dirty. 

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Recently a survey was done around the world asking women to reveal details of the sex lives. One result was consistent across the globe…

70 percent of women have never had a vaginal orgasm in intercourse.

Anyway you look at it there are a lot of frustrated women out there, which means a lot of guys are lousy lovers. (and truth is, I was once a lousy lover too, it cost me a wife.)

Over half of all women have faked a vaginal orgasm in intercourse. It is no surprise that over half of all marriages end in divorce.

All too many women complain that sex is not fulfilling and that men are being sexually selfish. Women feel left out. Think about it, when the man always has an orgasm in sex, but she doesn’t, it appears that sex is all about him.

So here is a little secret… if you don’t want to be her next lousy lover, don’t make sex all about you. (read that again)

Listen, I receive a lot of emails from women. They are freaking frustrated. They are tired of a life of unfulfilling sex. They read the stories on my blog and they dream about having the kind of exciting sex those women are having.

Here is one I got from a married woman:

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David,

I have read all the stories in your newsletter about the success that your clients have had in giving their woman vaginal orgasms in sex. How can I have a vaginal orgasm in sex?

I’ve been married for 15 years and I have never had an orgasm in sex. I only have orgasms from oral sex. My husband has no problem having orgasms in sex!

At age 39, I want so desperately to experience those powerful vaginal orgasms that your clients write about!

I thought maybe I was just one of the unlucky women who can’t have orgasms in sex, but after I found your website I began to wonder if maybe I’m just with the wrong man.

What do I need to do?

Sincerely,

Frannie

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